Archive for November, 2011

For Your Well Being: Un-stuffing your Holidays

Thursday, November 17th, 2011

Nov. 17, 2011, Vol. 9 Issue 11

Dear Friends,
I usually write about diet book authors and speakers at the typical time of renewal — New Year’s. This time I’m turning the tables, and getting into the topic BEFORE the over-indulgence begins. Today’s featured article is by Michelle May, MD, author of Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat. With a title like that, you’re thinking, “Really, right before Thanksgiving?”  The answer is YES!

Dr. Michelle MayMichelle May, MD, CSP  is a recovered yo-yo dieter and founder of the award-winning Am I Hungry® Workshops.  She takes a compassionate, constructive mind-body approach to living a vibrant, healthy life. Dr. May’s authenticity and passion for healthy lifestyles stem from her own personal struggle with food and weight. After years of chronic dieting, she resolved her battle by developing a healthy, balanced approach to food, movement, and self-care.

As you can see, the book cover features a heart-shaped piece of chocolate, so you know she’s a woman after my heart.  Here are her thoughts on getting through the holidays healthfully.  If you’re really serious, print this out and post it on your fridge.

Save the Stuffing for the Turkey:
Eat Mindfully Instead

By Michelle May, M.D.
This holiday season, experience maximal pleasure from all the wonderful food and special occasions. By eating mindfully you’ll eat less and enjoy it more. The key to mindful eating is to notice the details. Pretend you’re writing an article about your Thanksgiving or other holiday meal for a gourmet magazine. The following tips are from Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat: How to Break Your Eat-Repent-Repeat Cycle.

  • Focus on the people you are sharing your meal with. Engage in interesting conversations. Ask questions and really listen to your companions.
  • Notice how hungry you are. If you aren’t hungry yet, become aware of the reasons you feel like eating anyway. If it’s for social reasons, then be social for a while longer, then eat when you get hungry.
  • Decide how you want to feel when you’re done eating. Stuffed and miserable? Or comfortable and content? Fill your plate or order accordingly.
  • Mentally describe the table setting and the ambiance. Notice the aromas, colors, textures, and presentation of the meal.
  • Before eating, take a moment to be truly thankful about where your food came from, including all the people who invested their time, effort, and talent to get it from farm to plate.
  • Choose food carefully by asking yourself what you want and need. Don’t waste your appetite on cranberry sauce shaped like a can if you don’t love it!
  • Put one small bite in your mouth. You only have taste buds on your tongue so the flavors of a large bite of food are lost on your teeth, cheeks, and the roof of your mouth.
  • Notice the texture and flavors of the food on your tongue then slowly begin to chew it. Breathe since flavors other than salty, sweet, bitter and sour actually come from the aromas.
  • Set your fork down between bites. If you begin to load your next forkful your attention will be on the next bite, not the one you are eating now. And if you are focused on the next bite of food instead of the one you are eating, you won’t stop eating until there are no more forkfuls.
  • Sit for a moment and let the flavors and experience linger before you take the next bite.
  • Notice as the food gently fills your stomach. Pause for several minutes in the middle of eating to reconnect with your hunger and fullness levels and enjoyment of the meal.
  • Food is abundant this time of year—actually all year for most of us. Remind yourself that you can eat more later or at another meal so there’s no need to eat it all now and ruin the experience by feeling stuffed.

Mindful eating is a great way to enjoy Thanksgiving and other meals more while eating less. You’ll be thankful that you did!

Michelle May, M.D. is the founder of the Am I Hungry?® Mindful Eating Program that helps individuals learn to break free from mindless and emotional eating to live a more vibrant, healthy life. She is the award-winning author of Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat: How to Break Your Eat-Repent-Repeat Cycle. Download the first chapter free.

Dr. May empowers individuals to take charge of their life and end chronic dieting and overeating without deprivation and guilt.  Her primary goal has been to inspire audiences to improve their health with her compassionate and constructive approach.  She delivers her crucial and timely message with energy, humor, and insight that transform the way people view weight management.

“My goal is to inspire audiences to address their triggers for overeating, rediscover joy in physical activity, and effectively nourish their body, mind, heart and spirit,” she says.

Dr. May was recently the morning keynote speaker for Mikey Hoeven’s Women’s Wellness Expo in Bismarck, ND.  Mikey commented about the wealth of content she provided and that the women got images that they could wrap their minds around, take home and put into play right away.  One attendee commented, “The information was simple, hands-on, clear, and down-to-earth. I appreciated how her teachings of intentionality and attentiveness can be applied to all other things in life.”  They also appreciated her humor and inspirational qualities.

The Am I Hungry?® program has received the Excellence in Patient Education Innovation Award and is available through corporate wellness programs, medical offices, hospitals, fitness centers, insurance companies, and community programs. Dr. May has trained and licensed over 250 Am I Hungry?® Facilitators worldwide. As a physician, author, inspirational speaker, workshop facilitator, and consultant, Dr. May has shared her powerful and innovative approach to mindful eating and non-diet weight management with thousands of individuals, workshop participants, health care professionals, and organizations across the country. To learn more, please visit our website, or give me a call at 503-699-5031.

Rock Your Pelvis in South Florida
Pelvic Health Conference

By 2020, more than one-third of the US female population will be considered post-menopausal. So it’s no surprise that pelvic health is the “next big thing” in women’s health. Is your hospital ready?  Spirit Conference Group is presenting a Pelvic Health Conference, Jan. 12-13, 2012, “Steps to Success in Pelvic Health Programming,” at the Ritz Carlton, Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

This will be an opportunity to join hospital and healthcare executives, physicians and thought leaders from across the country in learning valuable information and identifying best practices for establishing and maintaining a successful women’s pelvic health service line or program – meeting the clinical, navigational and quality of life needs of patients as well as the strategic and business needs of your hospital, practice or healthcare organization.

With American healthcare in transition to ‘accountable care’ and ‘meaningful use’ it is critical that healthcare organizations continue to focus first on the delivery of effective care to their patients – and particularly women. Within the next decade there will be more than 50 million post-reproductive women in the U.S. alone. A surprisingly large proportion of all American women (research suggests nearly 25%) suffer chronic pain brought about by pelvic floor disorders. Women’s Pelvic Health will become a platform for the future of healthcare in the United States by integrating diagnostics, prevention, and early intervention across a myriad of clinical disciplines into a cohesive pelvic health service line approach.

This conference is ideally suited for Senior Level Executives, Vice Presidents, Administrators, Directors, Managers, Physicians, Nurses and other health professionals involved in the care of women and their pelvic health issues. Attendance is limited! To register, please click here. For additional conference information, contact Dana Smith, Spirit Conference Group, dsmith@spirithealthgroup.com .

Getting into the Gratitude Habit

I’m back in the gratitude habit again. For years and years, I wrote in a gratitude journal every day.  It’s always fun to re-discover those booklets tucked away in the corner of a bookcase, and re-live that time of life noting what I noticed and recorded as important. The truth is, however, that the power of a gratitude journal lies not in its historical perspective, but in the power of the moment.

My new habit includes keeping my journal handy on my desk, and recording my successes and joys as they happen, plus a healthy dose of gratitude for every single one, big and small. That can be everything from an inquiry, to a booking, to talking with a new speaker, to a great client report about their event (love those!), to opening to new ways to do things. PLUS dog kisses, honey love, a beautiful fall scene outside my window, healthy fresh food, Skyping with grandkids, and a warm house and comfortable bed.

I could go on and on, but I know that you have your own gratitudes and that’s what’s important for you. I hope you’ll take time this Thanksgiving season to pay attention to what you’re grateful for — it’s the best way to get more of what you really want. Until next time, do it for your well being and those you love.

Yours truly,
Barbara

PLEASE NOTE: The information shared in this e-news is designed to help you make informed decisions about speakers and the programs they offer. It is not intended as a substitute for any treatment prescribed by a doctor. If you suspect you have a medical problem, seek competent medical help.

About Our Services

You’ll find many of our speakers on our website, SpeakWellBeing.com.

The Speak Well Being Group specializes in exceptional speakers for women’s health and wellness, community and healthcare-oriented special events, including cancer survivor, breast health awareness, heart health and nurses appreciation programs. Our goal is to make it effortless to connect clients with the talent and expertise that will make speaker selection easy and ensure a successful event. We’ve been co-creating health and wellness through connections since 1998.

For Your Well Being: Sparks…from the Pulpit

Friday, November 4th, 2011

Nov. 4, 2011, Vol. 9 Issue 10

Dear Friends,

People often ask me how I find my speakers. The answer is many ways, including my own research. Most events are annual, so when I work with a client, I’m always thinking of who would be a good fit for them for their next event. But one of my favorite resources is when a client tells me about a speaker. That’s how I heard about Reverend Susan Sparks, and in this case, I not only heard about her and booked her, I got to meet her shortly thereafter.

Rev. Susan Sparks
America’s Only Female Stand-up Comedian with a Pulpit

Who would guess that a minister at Madison Avenue Baptist Church in Manhattan, is also a stand-up comedian who speaks at humor conferences, women’s events  and colleges around the country. That’s Rev. Susan Sparks who is also an ex-lawyer, and a motorcycle chick whose trademark is cowboy boots — she spends a couple of weeks every year riding around the country checking out the pulse of rural America from behind the handlebars.

Susan was not necessarily the religious type when she was a trial lawyer for Citibank, drafting contracts and defending litigation claims. She had been raised in a very conservative Baptist tradition in the South, which was all she knew. Disillusionment might be an understatement as she entered adulthood. Yet there was as least as much disillusionment in life as a trial lawyer. To balance her life in corporate America, she exercised her natural ability to make people laugh by performing in comedy clubs at night.

Yet that wasn’t enough. There was something missing. Her parents had taught her to leave things better than she found them, and corporate litigation for sure wasn’t achieving that. So she quit her job and set off on a two-year journey around the world to discover her life’s mission. She immersed herself in unfamiliar religions. She spent time with a Hindu family in India, meditated with Buddhist monks in Nepal, and visited an imam in Cairo.  She worked with Mother Teresa’s mission in Calcutta, climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro and drove the Alaska Highway.

The spark that linked laughter and spirituality for her was ignited at Mother Teresa’s orphanage when she met Anna, a little 5-year old deaf girl. “She snuggled into my lap and put her ear to my chest. I laughed and she squealed with delight. It was the vibrations she was feeling! So we continued. It was like God dropped a sign: ‘Laughter and spirituality go together!’”

When she returned to the U.S., she entered Union Theological Seminary in New York City where she earned a Master of Divinity and wrote an honors thesis on humor and religion.

“The theme that runs through my work is humor and healing,” she says. “I believe laughter is the GPS system for the soul. Humor offers a revolutionary, yet simple, spiritual paradigm: If you can laugh at yourself, you can forgive yourself. And if you can forgive yourself, you can forgive others.”

Besides being a lawyer, a comedian, an ordained minister, and an author, she is also a self-admitted cowboy boot addict. She wears them everywhere from the pulpit to comedy clubs. “It’s my trademark. I love to fly fish, too.”

On a more serious note, Susan is also a breast cancer survivor — the primary reason she was originally recommended to me as a speaker.  She writes about her experience (and many others) in her book, “Laugh Your Way to Grace.” Needless to say at this point, humor played a major role in her recovery. “Laughter is, in fact, a way of coming at the world. It challenges how we perceive ourselves and our circumstances, it re-frames how we see others, and it changes the very way we engage with God,” she says.

Shortly after discovering Susan, I received a call from Mrs. Mikey Hoeven, the former first lady of North Dakota (her husband is now Senator John Hoeven). I had worked with her for many years, recommending speakers for the Annual Women’s Health summits in Bismarck and Fargo, that she, as First Lady of ND, had initiated. She was being urged to re-start the summits and called me about keynote speakers. One of her objectives was to find a speaker who could uplift the women of Bismarck, who were suffering in the aftermath of massive flooding that had displaced many of them (including Mikey) from their homes.

We started out looking at psychologists and inspirational speakers who had dealt with adversity. None of them quite fit the bill. Too serious. Then it hit me, humor in crisis, that’s the answer — Susan Sparks. Susan, the cancer survivor, stand-up comedian and minister, speaking on “Laugh Your Way to Grace,” could earn the audience’s respect and the right to introduce the theme of laughing in a crisis. “Laughter can act as a lifeboat for those in crisis: a place of protection, a means of moving to and through grief, a vessel that can carry us above the pain, a second chance,” Susan says.

“Susan hit it out of the ballpark. I’ve had more comments about Susan Sparks than any other speaker I’ve had in all of the Expo’s I’ve done, and that’s quite a few!” Mikey said. “She was uplifting, very funny, well-rounded, inspirational — the whole package. I’d book her again in a heartbeat.”  Those are the kind of results that really make my heart sing and my spirit soar.

To  see what I mean about Susan, visit our website,  or give me a call at 503-699-5031. Oh, and P.S. another thing she does outside of the pulpit?  She performs comedy shows with a standup Rabbi and a Muslim comic.

IN THE FLOW
Have you ever had that feeling that you’re traveling down a magical path? That’s how I felt when I made the decision to move from Michigan to Oregon back in 1998. There was a nudge that just kept moving me forward, regardless of my “rational” objections.  Things just kept unfolding effortlessly.  I’m so glad I followed that muse!  And I’m having that experience again.

Three weeks ago I made another decision, this one fairly impulsively. Following that same sense of magic, I flew to Connecticut to attend a business building seminar.  It was phenomenal — and it’s an ongoing program I will be involved in for a year, and possibly longer. It just seemed like a perfect fit for what I needed to do. To make the trip, I was able to use my frequent flyer miles (which were about to expire), and although that put me on the red eye, it was a blessing. I ended up in New York City at dawn on a Sunday morning which was the perfect time for me to go see Susan Sparks in her pulpit. I even got personal guidance from Susan on ground transportation from JFK to Manhattan. So I found myself walking down Park Avenue in the early Sunday morning light when the City was still mostly asleep, and into the back door of the Madison Avenue Baptist Church, where Susan just happened to be coming down the stairs and greeted me. I love it when I get to see a speaker in person — even if delivering a sermon was not exactly a typical speaking engagement. On the other hand, she couldn’t help being funny as she delivered a profound message. With the grace she showed, she made me feel absolutely welcome, and I can recommend her whole-heartedly.

Oh, and the icing on the cake . . . after church, I went on to Stamford, CT, for my Monday-Tuesday seminar, and my client, Marcia Anderson, of the George Bray Cancer Center in New Britain, came down and met me for dinner.  We’ve worked on many events over the years, and this was the first time we got to meet in person. Ironically, Marcia is the one who originally had heard about Susan and told me about her … and that makes me smile.

I urge you to listen to those mysterious hints from the Universe and be surprised and delighted by what occurs. Serendipitous opportunities could be just around the corner for you, as well. Until next time, take care of yourself for your well being and those you love.

Yours truly,
Barbara

PLEASE NOTE: The information shared in this e-news is designed to help you make informed decisions about speakers and the programs they offer. It is not intended as a substitute for any treatment prescribed by a doctor. If you suspect you have a medical problem, seek competent medical help.

About Our Services

You’ll find many of our speakers on our website, SpeakWellBeing.com.

The Speak Well Being Group specializes in exceptional speakers for women’s health and wellness, community and healthcare-oriented special events, including cancer survivor, breast health awareness, heart health and nurses appreciation programs. Our goal is to make it effortless to connect clients with the talent and expertise that will make speaker selection easy and ensure a successful event. We’ve been co-creating health and wellness through connections since 1998.